Our Nine Month Journey

Our Nine Month Journey

 I haven’t been the best at documenting my whole pregnancy on the blog here, so I thought I’d take some time this week to do a little recap of the journey we’ve taken these last nine months. :)

(March) Jose and I had just returned to Midland from our trip to Denton, where I took my accounting final at UNT. It was a tough class and I was just exhausted by the end of it, but I wondered why it was taking me so long to catch up on my sleep from the trip! I soon found out it was because I was expecting a baby!!! This child was something we had been hoping for and been looking forward to for a long time, but nothing prepares you for the moment you find out you’re actually going to be a parent. We were beyong estatic, and wondered how we were going to keep the news to ourselves for so long.

(April) Jose and I stayed busy by keeping up with our running schedule together. We had been training all spring to run our first 5k together on April 11th. I’m so glad we kept up with this exercise routine – it kept me from thinking too much about all the changes and uncomfort I was starting to go through at this time! Our 10 week appointment with the OB doctor was on April 29th, when we saw our precious baby via ultrasound for the first time. It was the most magical moment for us both, we were just in awe watching him wiggle and dance on the screen. I still hadn’t experienced any morning sickness at this point, but was grateful that my spring semester was a condensed one. I don’t know how I would have kept up with both work and school while still feeling so sleepy all the time!

(May) We FINALLY broke the good news to our families! Jose was able to tell his family in person, and I was on the phone with him via FaceTime when he did so. I will never forget the look on his sisters’ faces when we told them the news!! At the end of the month, we took a short but sweet trip to Atlanta for my cousins graduation celebration. I knew it’d be the only time I would spend with my family before the baby was born, so we jumped at the chance to be with everyone together all at once.

(June) School started back for me, and I was a little nervous about how I would balance work and school while also being pregnant. Luckily for me, I got my energy back at this point, and my class was a nice distraction from the anticipation we had of finding out whether the baby was going to be a boy or girl (we wouldn’t find out until July!). Jose and I kept up our running, and were training for our next 5k race on July 4th. While the weather was starting to get hot, it was still not as bad as some past summers we’ve spent here in Texas. I was especially grateful for the milder temperatures this year!!

(July) The weather eventually started to warm up to normal temperatures at the beginning of this month – July 4th weekend was a hot one! We ran our 5k early on that July 4th morning, but at a pretty relaxed pace. I knew at that point my growing belly was starting to slow me down. The next Friday, we had our appointment to find out if it was a boy or girl. For some reason, both Jose and I were convinced that it was going to be a little girl, so when we found out it was a boy, we were both just beside ourselves from the surprise! We came home that day and immediately started thinking up names (we had had a girl’s name picked out and ready, but still hadn’t quite settled on a boy’s name at that point).

(August) My least favorite month of the year in Texas, only because of the excruciating heat. I survived, but had already switched from running to walking very early in the mornings with the dogs. I was hoping to keep up with running throughout my pregnancy, but the heat was too much to bear and I didn’t want to make myself sick by pushing through with exercise. I was a little disappointed, but began enjoying my long daily walks with the puppies.

(September) As mentioned before, September was a pretty busy month for us. We had three baby showers, and went on a short trip at the end of the month to Houston, New Braunfels, and Dallas (for a baby shower, wedding, and to take some maternity photos – which I’ll share here soon!). My Mom made the trip out to Houston, which was so special – I didn’t know if I’d be able to see her again before the baby was born. Our trip was a long one, though, and I wondered if I’d be able to keep up with my energy levels throughout the weekend. I think just the excitement of seeing all our friends and family is what kept me going, but by the time we returned to Midland I was exhausted! I think I slept 10 hours for 3 days straight when we returned. :)

(October) My last month at work ended up being one of the busiest! I was working on a special project for the office, while also training the person who’d be taking over once I was gone. On top of that, Jose and I still hadn’t finished the nursery at home, and we kept busy at home putting together all the baby gear we had gotten as gifts the month before. Also, by this time, I started feeling very pregnant, and just the normal everyday routine was starting to wear me out. I was counting down the days until I was done with work! My last official day was Halloween (October 31st) – and saying goodbye to everyone was a little bittersweet. I had come to really like working with several of the ladies in my office, and would miss the day-to-day routine of getting up and going to the office each day. I also knew that the change meant this baby was on his way SOON!

(November) These past two weeks, I’ve had a long laundry list of things I wanted to do at home before the baby arrives. Turns out, being nine months pregnant, it was a bit silly to think I’d be a productivity machine at home (this nesting instinct is serious business!!). We are having lots of company come to visit these next two months, and I wanted the house to be ready for all our guests. But with the baby arriving in just a couple of days, I’ve come to accept that what’s done is done, and anything left will just have to wait until after the New Year. Also, I haven’t been sleeping too well at all this past week, and have had sort of a loss in appetite these past days, but each night I go to bed I just think about how we’re one day closer to meeting this sweet baby, and that the pregnancy stage is finally coming to an end!!

These past nine months have really been an adventure for Jose and me. I’ve had my good days and bad days, but all-in-all, I have to say that my pregnancy was completely different than what I expected it to be (in a good way). I was very lucky that I didn’t experience any morning sickness or even much discomfort, until the very end here. But more importantly, we’re just happy that this baby appears to be healthy and well, and ready to make his appearance soon. On Tuesday morning, we’ll check-in to the hospital for a scheduled C-section. We’ve waited so long to meet this sweet baby, that I cannot believe it’s all going to happen in just a few short days!!! By this time next week, we plan to be home and figuring out what it means to be a family of five (puppies included!). :)

I’m sure I’ll be posting lots of photos on my Instagram account, if you want to follow along there. I’d also like to share more about the baby and motherhood here on the blog, if for no other reason than to keep me accountable for documenting this little one as he grows up (from what I hear, it all happens in the blink of an eye!).

xo, Amanda